Diving into your personal sexual journey is like stepping into a fabulous adventure! It’s all about knowing what makes you tick and keeping that fiery spark sizzling in the bedroom. And guess what? You don’t need a partner for that. Luckily, there are enough adult sex shops dotted around the city that every fantasy can be fulfilled. Stocking everything from organic lubricants and sex toy sets to body jewellery and lacy lingerie, here’s our pick of the best sex shops and adult stores in Hong Kong (online and physical) to get you in the mood.

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Take Toys — Your ultimate adult shop for unbeatable deals and fantasies

Looking to spice things up? Look no further than Take Toys, Hong Kong’s ultimate adult playground! With over 11,000 products spread across 15 stores and a fabulous online shop, they’re turning fantasies into reality. Discover top brands like Svakom, Womaniser, We-Vibe and more — all at unbeatable prices. Need a last-minute thrill? You’re in luck! Take Toys is open until midnight and conveniently located near MTR stations. Don’t forget to keep an eye out for exclusive deals and sales, or pop by the stores for a fun, judgement-free shopping spree!

Snag some fab deals at Take Toys’ online store! Enjoy free delivery on orders over $300, plus bulk discounts from 5% off on orders over $1,000 to 10% off on orders over $5,000! Can’t forget about those Loyalty Credits — earn 5% of your purchase to splurge on your next order. Click here for its ultimate sales page!

Take Toys, various locations across Hong Kong, 6990 6501, Instagram: @taketoys_hk, www.taketoys.com

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Sally’s Toy by Sally Coco – High-end sex toys, fetish wear and more

This approachable intimate lifestyle store doesn’t have a physical space anymore, but retains its soul in the online shop. Founded by local couple Vera and Picco, Sally’s Toy is a female-friendly brand that sells knowledge first and high-end products second. We love Sally’s for its collection of menstrual care products, sex toys, luxurious lingerie and fetish wear for all genders.

Sally’s Toy, 2110 1733, www.sallystoy.com

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Les’Play – Women-led, queer-friendly sex toy shop in Hong Kong

A complete newbie to sex toys or looking to upgrade your collection? Les’Play caters to all! Founded by a registered social worker and sex educator, this queer-friendly adult shop offers curated, body-safe toys. It creates an empowering space where you can explore intimacy on your own terms. Les’Play’s goal is to help you find your perfect match, whether you’re in the market for solo self-care or couples play. The expert Pleasure Consultants at the Tsim Sha Tsui boutique are available for personalised, judgement-free advice, or you can shop online at your leisure.

Sassy Tip: Enjoy free shipping in Hong Kong for orders over $300, all in discreet boxes for your absolute privacy.

Use code SASSY10 to get 10% off all regular-priced items at Les’Play. Offer valid until Friday, 31 December, 2027.

Les’Play, 3/F, 26 Granville Road, Tsim Sha Tsui, Kowloon, Hong Kong, 9135 5814, Instagram: @lesplay_hk, www.lesplayhk.com

Wanta – Sex toy sets, lingerie and S&M items

Small and intimate, you wouldn’t expect to find a whole treasure trove of adult products inside this sex shop. There’s no need to feel overwhelmed though as Wanta offers professional demos on an array of its products, which includes everything from fancy massagers to S&M items, sex toys and lingerie. The shop also stocks items such as pheromone-enhancing body lotions and a sex toy set designed for couples in long-distance relationships.

Wanta, 2/F, 28 Russell Street, Causeway Bay, Hong Kong, 6468 8081, www.wanta.com

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Waddy Store – Sexual wellbeing shop selling high-quality adult toys

With two conveniently located stores in Kowloon and on Hong Kong Island, Waddy Store is a great spot to browse the latest sex toys at competitive prices. The sexual wellbeing shop also offers sexual wellness advice on its online site and speedily delivers products across the city in discreet boxes.

Waddy Store, Shop 122, 1/F, Solo Building, 41-43 Carnarvon Road, Tsim Sha Tsui, Kowloon, Hong Kong, 5295 7961
Waddy Store, 1/F, 541 Lockhart Road, Causeway Bay, Hong Kong, 6182 6328, www.waddystore.com

Omakase Toy – Japanese sex toys, organic lubricants and more

In true Japanese omakase fashion, you can trust this shop to provide a curated selection of the finest Japanese sex toys and intimate products out there. Omakase Toy carries all the essentials for both solo and couple use, including organic lubricants, luxe vibrators and other easy-to-use sex toys. If you’re in a rush and are ordering online, you can opt for your items to be delivered in as quick as four hours!

Omakase Toy, various locations across Hong Kong, WhatsApp: 5419 4065, www.omakasetoy.com

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Joyful Night – BDSM toys, lingerie and more

Joyful Night was founded by Hong Kong YouTuber Cindy Yeung who was also a Miss Hong Kong 2012 contestant. On her YouTube channel, Cindy gives tips on how to increase pleasure through different sex toys. Her shops offer a wide range of adult goods from Japan and overseas for both genders, including vibrators, lubricating oils, lingerie and more.

Joyful Night (Sin Tat Plaza), Shop 58, 2/F, Sin Tat Plaza, 83 Argyle Street, Mong Kok, Kowloon, Hong Kong
Joyful Night (Sino Centre), Shop 48, B/F, Sino Centre, 582-592 Nathan Road, Mong Kok, Kowloon, Hong Kong, WhatsApp: 6728 2159, joyfulnighthk.boutir.com

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Pleasure Point – Sex toys, stimulation serums, lingerie and more

Pleasure Point positions itself as a gathering point for people interested in exploring their sexuality. While the online store offers a great selection of sex toys, stimulation serums and accessories to play around with, it’s worth visiting the Mong Kok or Causeway Bay store where the staff are happy to share their sexual health knowledge and sexual pleasure advice.

Pleasure Point (Mong Kok), Room 2101, Pakpolee Commercial Centre, 1A Sai Yeung Choi Street South, Mong Kok, Kowloon, Hong Kong, 9069 0717
Pleasure Point (Causeway Bay), Po Foo Building, 1-5 Foo Ming Street, Causeway Bay, Hong Kong, 5744 7779, www.pleasurepoint.com

LEXY – Over 5,000 trendy sex toys and accessories at your fingertips

If you haven’t heard of LEXY yet, you’re missing out! This Hong Kong-based online adult toy store is home to over 5,000 high-quality sex toys and accessories including popular vibrators and masturbators, lacy lingerie, BDSM sets and more fun stuff. There are often special deals and promotions running on the site so it’s worth checking in every now and then when you’re in the mood.

LEXY, WhatsApp: 9727 6428, www.lexy.com

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Salty Corner – Stimulators, harnesses, innovative toys and more

Salty Corner collects a variety of innovative and high-quality sex toys from all corners of the world, stocking well-known brands from the US, Europe, Japan and Taiwan. Catering to all fantasies and fetishes, you will find everything from nipple stimulators to flavoured lubricants, harnesses and so much more.

Salty Corner, Room D, 2/F, Sun Kai Mansion, 38 Hennessy Road, Wan Chai, Hong Kong, WhatsApp: 5500 0608, www.saltycorner.com

Other Online Sex Shops That Deliver To Hong Kong

• Sex Fun – Wide range of products including toys specifically for LGBT+, S&M, Male Endurance, Female Enhancers and more. www.sfunhk.com
• Fun Garden – Hong Kong-based online intimate lifestyle store stocking sex toys that both feel good and are good for your body. www.fungarden.com
• Avec Amour Lingerie – Premium lingerie, body jewellery and leather bondage pieces. www.avecamourlingerie.com

Editor’s Note: “The Best Sex Shops & Adult Stores In Hong Kong: Sex Toys And More” was most recently updated by Team Sassy in March 2026. With thanks to Sarah Richard, Inés Fung and Nathalie Sommer for their contributions.

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The World Health Organisation defines sexual health as a state of all-around well-being in relation to one’s sexuality. This doesn’t just imply the absence of disease and dysfunction; positivity and respect are also required to have pleasurable and safe sexual experiences that are free from violence and discrimination.

RuPaul said it best: taking care of your own sexual health should be a priority before you get down and dirty with someone else. Hong Kong may not be the most sexually liberated city, but you shouldn’t feel embarrassed for wanting to lead a healthy sex life. Curious to learn more? We’re here to help you find the resources you need.

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What To Expect
Where To Go

What To Expect When Visiting A Sexual Health Centre

Before you go

A prior appointment and doctor’s referral are not required at public clinics, but it’s best to call to book an appointment. Registration usually ends half an hour to an hour before closing time, but your wait will vary by location and time, so be sure to arrive early and be prepared to wait! All public clinics listed are closed on Saturdays, Sundays and public holidays.

If you choose to go to a private clinic, you should call ahead to enquire if they provide the service you require and to make an appointment. Unless you have an emergency, most private clinics will be unable to see you if you just walk in. The Family Planning Association’s Youth Health Care Centres, in particular, only provide services to unmarried women under the age of 26.

Both public and private clinics will test for syphilis, gonorrhoea, non-gonococcal urethritis, genital herpes, genital warts, pubic lice, chlamydia and HIV/AIDS. These tests will be performed through urine and blood tests, swabs and visual examination (try to avoid going for a general check-up while menstruating). Emergency contraceptives, counselling and vaccines are more typically found at private clinics. Though we believe that you should spare no cost for your health, the clinics listed below offer services that fit a range of budgets — from free testing at public clinics, to comprehensive packages costing over $1,000.

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What to bring

No matter where you choose to go, you must have your HKID card. You will then need to register your information at reception, and most clinics will provide you with a card for future visits. Some clinics may require a doctor’s referral and previous health records, so it’s best to check when making your appointment.

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During your visit

A nurse or doctor will speak to you privately about your health and sexual history. The questions may elicit a red face, but from our experiences, the staff are quite open-minded and helpful. They’ll talk you through different methods of birth control, different STIs/STDs and how they can be treated, and will try their best to make you feel comfortable, no matter the reason for your visit. Their bedside manner is highly professional as well.

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Results

You’ll be given results straight away for chlamydia and gonorrhoea, and the nurse will chat to you about anything else that may be flagged at this stage, including performing follow-ups to previous sexual partners to get checked. For everything else, though it may be nerve-wracking, patience is key. You will have to return to the social hygiene clinics after 3 weeks in person to get your results, as the policy does not allow notification over call or text. Private clinics are generally faster in delivering results, and you can also choose to be notified with a simple phone call.

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What’s next?

If all is well, keep on keeping on! If not, don’t fret — we’ve all been there. Not only can you speak to a nurse or counsellor, but we urge you to reach out to friends or family. If you want to learn more or even just grab some info for your partner, both public and private clinics offer educational services. We recommend you get screened after every new partner, or at least every three to six months. Remember, if you’ve had unprotected sex or are experiencing new symptoms such as painful urination, unusual discharge or itching around the genitals, the only risk is not knowing! Last but not least, “wrapping it before tapping it” isn’t the only thing that keeps sex healthy and safe —  you and your partner(s) must also give and receive consent!

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Where To Go For A Sexual Health Check-Up

Public Clinics

• Chai Wan Social Hygiene Clinic, West Wing LG5, Specialist Outpatient Block, Pamela Youde Nethersole Eastern Hospital, 3 Lok Man Road, Chai Wan, Hong Kong
• Wan Chai Female Social Hygiene Clinic, 6/F & 7/F, Tang Chi Ngong Specialist Clinic, 284 Queen’s Road East, Wan Chai, Hong Kong (Registration office is on 6/F)
• Yau Ma Tei Female Social Hygiene Clinic, 3/F, Yau Ma Tei Jockey Club Polyclinic, 145 Battery Street, Yau Ma Tei, Kowloon, Hong Kong
• Yung Fung Shee Social Hygiene Clinic, 4/F, Yung Fung Shee Memorial Centre, 79 Cha Kwo Ling Road, Kwun Tong, Kowloon, Hong Kong
• Tuen Mun Social Hygiene Clinic, 5/F, Tuen Mun Eye Centre, 4 Tuen Lee Street, Tuen Mun, New Territories, Hong Kong
• Fanling Social Hygiene Clinic, 6/F, Fanling Health Centre, 2 Pik Fung Road, Fanling, New Territories, Hong Kong

More resources for women’s sexual health and support can be found here.

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Private Clinics

• The Family Planning Association of Hong Kong, various locations across Hong Kong, www.famplan.org.hk
• Neo-Health Medical Centre, Unit 1106, 11/F, WorldWide House, 19 Des Voeux Road Central, Hong Kong, www.neohealth.com.hk
• Central Health, various locations across Hong Kong, www.centralhealth.com.hk
• Optimal Family Health, 7/F, Shun Ho Tower, 24-30 Ice House Street, Central, Hong Kong, www.optimalfamilyhealth.com.hk
• Hong Kong AIDS Foundation, Private locations in Central, Shau Kei Wan and Lai Chi Kok, call 2513 0513 to make an appointment, www.aids.org.hk
• Virtus Medical, Private locations conveniently located in Central and Tsim Sha Tsui, call 8102 2022 to make an appointment, virtusmedical.com/obstetrics-and-gynaecology
• AIDS Concern, Flat B, 3/F, Fu Lee Commercial Building, 14-20 Pilkem Street, Jordan, Kowloon, Hong Kong, www.aidsconcern.org.hk
• Urban Medical, 11/F, 168 Queen’s Road Central, Central, Hong Kong, urbanmedical.com.hk
• Pulse Clinic, 2F, 83 Wellington St, Central, Hong Kong, www.pulse-clinic.com.hk
• OT & P Healthcare, various locations across Hong Kong, www.otandp.com

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Editor’s Note: This article was most recently updated in March 2026 by Team Sassy. 

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Love it or loathe it, our city pulls out the stops year after year to mark the day of love. While you may still be recovering from trying to secure your New Year reservation, there are plenty of couples pining to dine out this year, so it’s best to book in early! Not sure what’s on offer this Valentine’s Day in Hong Kong? Keep reading to discover the best restaurants and speciality menus, from romantic dinners to couples’ baking classes.

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Calle Ocho — Spanish romance overlooking Victoria Park

Celebrate love Spanish-style at Calle Ocho this Valentine’s Week (Monday, 9 to Saturday, 14 February). This vibrant tapas haven on Fashion Walk, Causeway Bay, extends romance beyond just one day with a sumptuous spread for the whole week. Share intimate moments over Cured Beef Carpaccio with broken eggs and truffle, a comforting rice dish of Tear Drop Peas and Mushroom Arroz and mains such as Argentinian Striploin or succulent Suckling Pig. Finish with decadent Chocolate Torte adorned with berries and pink peppercorn. Let Spanish warmth kindle your passion.

When: Monday, 9 to Saturday, 14 February, 2026
Where: Calle Ocho, 8 Cleveland Street, Causeway Bay, Hong Kong
How much: $398 (Monday, 9 to Friday, 13 February); $580 (Saturday, 14 February) — book here.

Restaurant Petrus — Michelin-starred romance

Ascend to the 56th floor of Island Shangri-La for an unforgettable culinary journey at Michelin-starred Restaurant Petrus. Executive Chef Uwe Opocensky has curated an exquisite four or six-course menu showcasing the freshest seasonal ingredients. Begin with delicate Kristal Caviar Tart before savouring Scottish Scallop Ravioli with Vin Jaune and Chef Uwe’s signature Spanish Red Prawn. Choose between A5 Wagyu Beef or tender Beef Calotte for your main — whatever you choose, the meat is guaranteed to melt in your mouth. Of course, no romantic meal is complete without a dessert, and the culinary team takes care of that with the delicate sweetness of Coeur d’amour.

When: Saturday, 14 February, 2026 (lunch and dinner)
Where: Restaurant Petrus, 56/F, Island Shangri-La, Pacific Place, Supreme Court Road, Admiralty, Hong Kong
How much: Lunch: $1,288 (4 courses) | $1,888 (6 courses); Dinner: $2,388 (4 courses) | $3,388 (6 courses) — book here.

Babette — Modern French bistro charm

Let the spirit of modern French bistro dining sweep you off your feet this Valentine’s Day at Babette Social Eatery. This intimate Sheung Wan eatery presents a five-course dinner that starts with delicate appetisers like Poisson Fumé — smoked amberjack dressed with crème fraîche, pomelo and blood orange — and Croustillant Chèvre & Miel, a crispy goat cheese cigar drizzled with honey, before moving on to richer dishes such as the Cannelloni de Foie Gras swimming in classic Albufera sauce. The star of the menu is the Chateaubriand, tender beef tenderloin with Porto red wine sauce, caramelised carrots and confit potato. Finish with Tarte au Chocolat & Framboise, a chocolate tart kissed with raspberry coulis and verbena. French culinary artistry never tasted so romantic.

When: Saturday, 14 February, 2026
Where: Babette Social Eatery, 8 Bridges Street, Sheung Wan, Hong Kong
How much: $888 per guest — book here

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Qué Pasa Tapas y Vino — Passion, flamenco and fiery Spanish flavours

This Valentine’s Day, let your heart beat to the rhythm of Spain at Qué Pasa Tapas y Vino. Raise a toast to love with a complimentary glass of Spanish cava before diving into a six-course sharing dinner for two featuring Steak Tartare on smoked butter-slathered toast, Spanish Cold Cuts and Tortilla Española con Chorizo crowned with crispy capers and anchovies. Cleanse your palate with jewel-toned Beetroot Gazpacho before choosing between Charcoal-Grilled Ribeye with chorizo butter or fall-off-the-bone Braised Lamb Shank with saffron potatoes. What’s more, there’s an enthralling live flamenco performance for the evening, bringing to life Spain’s most iconic art form before your eyes.

When: Saturday, 14 February, 2026
Where: Qué Pasa Tapas y Vino, 9 Tai Hang Road, Tai Hang, Hong Kong
How much: $888 per couple — book here.

À Poêle French Bistro — A Parisian night of jazz and romance

Step into the City of Love without leaving Hong Kong this Valentine’s Day at À Poêle French Bistro. From 8pm onwards, couples can indulge in a refined four-course dinner menu while renowned saxophonist Karol Kijas serenades the room with soulful jazz melodies. Begin with classic French starters — choose from hand-cut Beef Tartare, charred Asparagus À la Grenobloise or luxurious Foie Gras Terrine with chutney. For mains, choose between creamy Lobster Risotto, Pan-seared Striploin, earthy Fettuccine with Porcini Mushroom or rustic Duck Confit with glazed carrots. Finish with playful Profiteroles filled with vanilla cream and drenched in Valrhona chocolate sauce. Add a bottle of Bernard Lonclas Blanc de Blancs NV champagne for just $498 to elevate your Parisian escape.

When: Saturday, 14 February, 2026 (from 8pm onwards)
Where: À Poêle French Bistro, Shop 514, G/F, Hing On Mansion, 5 Tai Yue Avenue, Taikoo Shing, Hong Kong (short walk from Tai Koo MTR Exit D1)
How much: $888 per couple; optional champagne add-on $498 per bottle — book here.

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Madame Fù — Love blossoms over exquisite Chinese cuisine

Romance blooms at Madame Fù this Valentine’s weekend with the newly launched Blossom of Love Duo Feast. Begin your journey with handcrafted dim sum artistry: delicate Rose Crystal Shrimp Dumpling paired with Crab Meat & Asparagus Lettuce Dumpling, complemented by the crispy lightness of Euryale Seed Ball. The feast continues with show-stopping mains — Grilled American Angus Beef Shoulder that melts on the tongue, infused with premium Chinese wine aromatics and Crispy Shredded Prawn with Hawthorn Berry Glaze. Each dish balances richness with vibrant flavours, creating a contrast that lingers on your tongue.

When: Friday, 13 February to Sunday, 15 February, 2026
Where: Madame Fù, 3/F, Barrack Block, Tai Kwun, 10 Hollywood Road, Hong Kong
How much: $900 per person — book here or call 2114 2118

Arcane — Timeless elegance with Chef Shane Osborn

Chef Shane Osborn invites couples to celebrate love through his meticulously curated Valentine’s Day Tasting Menu. The evening opens with King Crab Tartlet before moving to vibrant Japanese Fruit Tomato and Feta Mousse. Savour the freshness of Hokkaido Scallops Ceviche crowned with Oscietra Caviar, then surrender to pillowy Sautéed Potato Gnocchi enveloped in delicate Shaoxing wine velouté with morels and black truffle. The star of the show, however, is the pan-roasted Mayura Wagyu Rump Cap 7+, showcasing deep marbling alongside haricots verts and taro mille-feuille. Finish with Roasted Strawberries and Beetroot Tart before Arcane’s classic petit fours (Pâte de Fruit, Vanilla Canelé, Chocolate Cannoli) complete your journey.

When: Saturday, 14 February, 2026
Where: Arcane, 3/F, 18 On Lan St, Central, Hong Kong
How much: $1,688 per guest; optional wine pairings $588 (3 glasses) or $888 (5 glasses) — book here.

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Heimat by Peter Find — German epicurean excellence

This Valentine’s Day weekend, Chef Peter Find welcomes couples to fall in love with sophisticated German fare. The romantic four-course dinner menu offers exquisite choices at every turn: begin with Carpaccio of Wild Red Prawn or luxurious Foie Gras with Strawberry, Honey and Balsamic Glaze. Continue with Roasted Scallop crowned with Royal Oscietra Caviar and Creamy Mashed Potato or delicate Glacier Toothfish Fillet with Confit of Baby Pepper and Coulis. For mains, choose between Prime US Sirloin with Black Truffle and Wild Forest Mushroom Ragout or opulent Brittany Blue Lobster with Sea Urchin and Spätzle. Finish with Lychee, Raspberry and Rose Mousse. Wine pairings are available to elevate your epicurean celebration.

Want to try baking with your significant other? Join Chef Peter’s hands-on Heart-Shaped Black Forest Cake Baking Classes ($888 per couple), where experienced bakers and novices alike can create an authentic German treat. It’s something you can do as a family too, as kids above 6 years old are welcome to join.

When: Thursday, 12 to Sunday, 15 February, 2026 (Baking Classes: 7 to 15 February 2026)
Where: Heimat by Peter Find, 8/F, 33 Wyndham Street, Central, Hong Kong
How much: $2,888 per couple; Baking Class $888 per couple — book here or call 2881 1022

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Looking for gift ideas that will make your Valentine’s Day? Whether you’re looking to spoil your romantic partner, pick out a present for a loved one or treat your galentines (or maybe you’re shopping for yourself, we won’t judge!), you’ve come to the right place. From lovely candle holders and pretty palettes to fashionable fits, dazzling jewellery and sweet treats, here are 20+ Valentine’s Day gift ideas that we’re confident your S.O. will love.

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Grace & Favour HK, ‘Bloom Buckets’, $1,380

Looking to make a serious impression this Valentine’s Day? Grace & Favour HK has you covered with its exclusive ‘Bloom Buckets’,  which feature stunning roses sourced from the Ecuadorian highlands and are designed to stand freely, so you don’t even need to worry about finding a vase. It’s minimalist luxury at its best, perfect gifting to new crushes and longterm loves alike. You can also browse the full V-Day collection for more bouquet inspo — or toss in a cute Jellycat plush. Plus, every order comes with free delivery across Hong Kong Island and Kowloon and a complimentary card for your personal message!

Godiva, Assorted Chocolate Biscuits, $489

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The Peninsula, Afternoon Tea For Two, $950

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Vivienne Westwood, Imogene Crystal-Orb Pearl Necklace, $1,820

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Bacha Coffee, Discovery Blind Box, $388

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YSL, Valentine’s Day Cushion & Refill Set, $1,095

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Lululemon, The Mat 3mm, $480

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Magazine B, ISSUE NO.92 ‘% ARABICA’, USD$20

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Melograno Bath Salts, SANTA MARIA NOVELLA, $375

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LUSH, Life In Rosy Light Bath Bomb, $80

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Charles & Keith, Sammie Knotted-Handle Elongated Bag – Butter Yellow, $499

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Le Creuset, Set of 2 Snapper Dish White/Cerise, $440

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Umenoyado, Yuzu Shu, $170

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Blooms & Blossoms, First Blush of Adoration, $2,880

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Ritz-Carlton, Urban Escape Package For Two, $4,500

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Jellycat, Hugg McSnugg, $265

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Aesop, Resurrection Duet, $1,o30

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Stanley, The Valentine’s Day Quencher H2.0 Flowstate Tumbler 40 OZ, USD$50

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Celine Kwan, Hello Kitty Long Sleeve Top, £140

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 Eney, Kihei Ring, $2,350

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Roksaan, Customisable Valentine’s Day Card, From $59

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Kérastase, Gloss Absolu Glaze Drops Anti-Frizz Hair Oil, $290

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The Mixing Bowl, Pasteis de Nata Baking Class, $900 per person

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Maison Margiela, Replica Lazy Sunday Morning eau de toilette, $1,320

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Lovense, Lush 2 Egg Vibrator, $818

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 Hong Kong Trails, Hong Kong Hiking Gift Set, $595

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Loveramics, 220ml Cappuccino Cup and 14cm Cappuccino Saucer, $135

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We’re Not Really Strangers, Couples Edition Card Game, USD$20

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Swarovski, Gema Hoop Earrings, $1295

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BeCandle, Metal Cap Reed Diffuser 200ml – No. 39 Black Fig, $350

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Intimissimi, Modal Cashmere Ultralight Long Lace Shirt, $499

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If you still haven’t found what you’re looking for, head to our main gift guide landing page.

Editor’s Note: All listed prices were correct at the time of publication.

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Every winter, Hong Kong enters its year-end holiday ritual: the typhoon rains dry up, cold winds blow in and a city of underpaid 20-somethings frantically seek discount flights to anywhere warmer. By mid-November, my inbox was flooded with HK Express deals to Bali and Phu Quoc, promising paradise for less than a week’s rent. But I always closed the tab before booking, resigned to another grey winter.

Then came the Instagram notification. Gabriel, an older friend I hadn’t spoken to in years, replied to my story, asking about my holiday plans. When I told him I’d be in his hemisphere soon enough (visiting relatives in New York) he told me to stop by San Juan. “Stay for a week at my family’s house,” he offered in his characteristically quippy tone. “You don’t know a good time until you’ve been to Puerto Rico.”

At first, I hesitated. A week with someone I barely knew anymore — plus his family? It felt absurd. But then I considered the white sandy beaches, Gabriel’s lopsided smile and all the bad vacation rom-coms I’d ever seen: the kind where that sort-of friend, sort-of stranger turns out to be The One. This time, I decided, I wouldn’t overthink it. No more saying no to the universe. Minutes later, I booked my flight.

Fast forward two weeks, and I was sliding into the front seat of Gabriel’s car outside Luis Muñoz Marín International Airport. I braced myself for awkwardness, but the drive back to his house felt surprisingly familiar. We talked about his business in Taipei, how I still wanted to write for a living, and how much time had passed since we last saw each other. At one point, he reached over the dashboard, caught a strand of my hair between his fingers, and observed that it was longer now. “In a good way,” he laughed.

It was a simple gesture, but our eyes met for a moment as he returned his hand to the steering wheel, and suddenly it was clear: We’re going to sleep together. It felt inevitable in a way it hadn’t before, when we were friends in ‘real life’ and our five-year age gap felt more stark. Now, looking out his car window, tropical air washing away my typical neurosis, I got the strange impression that my teenage crush was belatedly reciprocated.

By 1am, we finally arrived. Gabriel carried my bag upstairs and showed me the guest room, interspersing quiet commentary: “You can use this towel,” and “Don’t drink the tap water.” Then he said goodnight, and suddenly I was alone. I’m at Gabriel’s house in Puerto Rico, I thought, but it still didn’t feel real. As I drifted to sleep, my mind flashed back to the late nights I’d spent in his apartment in Hong Kong, wishing just once he’d ask me to stay.

The next morning, we went straight to the beach. Gabriel’s best friend was waiting outside and, seeing me, let out a sputtered laugh. As we filed into the car, he said something loudly in Spanish that provoked Gabriel to cuss him out. “Sorry, J doesn’t have my manners,” Gabriel said quickly. When I reminded him I don’t speak Spanish, they exchanged a look, and for the rest of the ride neither spoke any English at all.

The beach did not disappoint. I felt like I had stepped into a postcard — clear blue water with white foamy tips, lines of palm trees and brightly coloured towels scattered across the soft sand. We found a patch of shade, put down our bags and stripped down to our swimwear. J unearthed a six-pack of Medella Light and offered a bottle to me and Gabriel. I refused, pointing to the water. “I’m going to swim first,” I told them. Gabriel got up immediately; J laid back, opened his beer with his teeth and mumbled something in Spanish.

So off Gabriel and I went, walking, then running, into the waves, which crashed around and swelled us further from the shore. It was blue as far as the eye could see. No longer able to stand, I floated on my back in the cool water, feeling like everything in my life had led up to this picture-perfect moment.

“Paradise, right?” Gabriel teased, swimming nearer to me. I wanted to reply with something witty, but got distracted by his proximity — he was so close now that I could feel warmth radiating off his body. Cue the love song, I thought to myself as he leaned in. And then we were kissing; softly at first, then deeply, his arms holing me steady in the waves.

Of course, I’d already rehearsed this scenario on the flight over. My friends teased me mercilessly before I left, saying there was no way we’d remain platonic. I’d laughed it off, but here we were, making out on a perfect beach under the perfect sun on a perfect day. My very own movie moment, replayed a thousand times in my head and now being lived. And yet, the magic feeling I had imagined wasn’t there.

You should be, like, ecstatic right now, I told myself as we swam back to shore, this is literally why you came. But something felt off. It was almost too easy, all of this. I had anticipated more buildup, I guess, or maybe it was our old dynamic that I missed. I wondered, am I so cliché that I only liked Gabriel because he didn’t want me back?

The sun had set by the time we packed our bags and returned to the car. Gabriel and J had another unintelligible Spanish conversation as we drove back, which ended with Gabriel pulling over at a bus stop and J getting out. He said goodbye comically slowly, dapping up Gabriel and winking at me before closing the door. It was clear where the night was headed. The thought didn’t exactly titillate, but who was I to protest fate?

From that moment, everything played out predictably, albeit on 2x speed — radio blasting on the drive home, a quick dinner and a bizarrely silent smoke on his porch. I could sense him working out how to initiate so assiduously that our typical banter seized into strained politeness. In the end, he landed on the wonderfully original: “Want to see my room?”

The sex was over as soon as it began. Gabriel sweatily collapsed onto the bed, his arm slinging over me in an uncomfortable half-hug. “Wow,” he said into my hair, his breath hot. I stared up at the ceiling fan and watched it turn for several weighted seconds, then mustered up an unenthusiastic “yeah.” This is why you don’t fuck your friends, I thought before wriggling out from under him and pulling on my clothes.

Gabriel, who I had always known as all-charm, seemed deflated by my lack of post-sex adoration. He coughed awkwardly, redressed and began to relay our plans for the rest of the night — dancing with some friends, maybe a late night snack. “The clubs here are the best, seriously, there’s this DJ…” he went on and on.

I wondered, am I the worst person in the world? Here I was, staying for free in this beautiful city, with an old friend acting as chauffeur and tour guide. He organised itineraries for every day I was there; planned to introduce me to all his friends; wasn’t letting me pay for anything. All I had to do was pretend to enjoy sleeping with him. Even this I couldn’t manage. It wasn’t supposed to feel like this, I thought.

The truth was, I had underestimated the delusion that predicated my holiday fantasy. I just want to lie on a beach, I told myself. “Plus, I might end up falling in love and having the best week of my life” was the unspoken second clause. But I had successfully convinced myself that, in this foreign land, I would emerge as A Very Chill Girl — one who totally never projects fantasies and expectations onto unwitting friends.

Was it so bad that I wanted to escape my routine and responsibilities, at least for a brief tropical moment? No, I suppose we all do. But as the weather cools and the sun creepingly begins to set earlier, I remind myself that my dream life isn’t waiting underneath a palm tree on the other side of the horizon, Medella in hand.

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The art of sexual wellness boils down to being creative, staying curious and not just sticking to the same old tried-and-tested routine. Furniture can be your friend when it comes to spicing up your sex life — think kitchen sinks, countertops, walls and mirrors, which can breathe new life into an old position. You can even buy custom-built sex furniture (made with comfy, easy-to-clean materials), to make certain positions more accessible and pleasurable. And if you’ve always wanted to try bona fide sexual acrobatics, then a sex swing will enable you to defy gravity without breaking a sweat. Or throw a sex toy into the mix. Something like a roll of bondage tape or a hands-free couples vibrator will take your sex position to the next level.

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The Best Sex Position To: Maximise Female Pleasure

Let me start with a statistic that might surprise you. Only 25% of women consistently orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. So it makes sense to kick things off with an oral sex position, because women are more likely to orgasm from a talented tongue on their clitoris than through penetration.

Try this upgrade from the standard, spread-eagled oral sex position. Have your lover position themselves perpendicular to your hip, so their tongue is going side to side across your clitoral hood, as opposed to up and down in more of a ‘head on’ front-facing position. This is called The Kivin Method, which claims to produce a faster and more intense orgasm for women.

Now let’s talk intercourse positions. To maximise female pleasure, I’ve found it’s usually the simplest positions with a couple of tweaks that work best. The Modified Missionary where you draw your knees up towards your chest or bring your legs up to wrap around your lover’s waist will elevate the pubic bone more than traditional Missionary, making it easier to get that clitoral stimulation.

Think about incorporating more of a grinding action, as opposed to just thrusting, to ensure more direct contact with the clitoris. For deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation, lift one leg and rest it on your thrusting partner’s shoulder. The other leg can be placed around your lover’s thigh, like you would for standard Missionary. This is called the Praying Mantis position. It’s easy for your partner to also lend a ‘helping hand’ to stimulate your clitoris in this position too.

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The Best Sex Position To: Drive My Partner Wild

If you know what body part really drives your partner wild, then choose sex positions that visually accentuate those parts. If you have a “butt person” in the bedroom with you, then try the Reverse Cowgirl, a position which puts the woman on top, but facing towards her lover’s feet. Or experiment with Bent Over Doggy-style, also known as the Turtle position. Start off on all fours in the traditional table-top position, then bend your head and shoulders to rest them on the bed, while keeping your bum in the air. You can wrap your arms around your legs to help lean further forward and provide balance.

If it’s breasts your lover goes crazy for, then something like a classic Woman On Top where you can lean over to allow your breasts to drop oh-so-sensually into your partner’s mouth works well. For added intensity in these positions, make sure other erogenous zones on the body get attention too. If there’s hair that needs grabbing, ears that need nibbling or nipples that need sucking, you know what to do. Or let your primal side take over, and wrestle, bite or claw your way to a screaming climax in any position.

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The Best Sex Position To: Feel Close And Intimate

If you’re feeling frisky in the morning, Spooning – a position in which both you and your partner are laying down on your side facing the same direction – is a great way to start your day for hetero, same-sex and gender-nonconforming couples. It can also be modified with endless variations based on your preferences. Whether you’re after some gentle clitoral stimulation or a little backdoor action, this position has you covered.

For slow, sensual, energetic lovemaking and intimacy, The Lotus position (also known as Yab-Yum from the Tantric tradition), is my go-to. Have your lover sit with crossed legs on the bed, with you sitting on top of their lap. Usually it makes most sense for the lighter partner to sit on the heavier partner’s lap, and wrap their legs and arms around the other person in a passionate embrace.

This is a great position for kissing and looking deep into each other’s eyes. Some couples even join their foreheads together to connect their ‘third eyes’ and share sexual energy, appreciating each other’s presence to the fullest. As you have sex in the Yab-Yum position, try to breathe deeply together and see if you can synchronise a few breaths, while grinding and rocking your way back and forth to ecstatic bliss.

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Is There A ‘Best Overall’ Sex Position?

The short answer is no. We all have unique strengths, flexibilities, shapes and sizes, and we all fit together differently. So, the sex positions mentioned above won’t work for everyone. Instead, use them as a guide, play with them, modify them and create your own versions. Then you can name them as enigmatically as you want!

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Francis — Romantic mezze platters in Wan Chai and Central

Care to share? Francis, a Middle Eastern restaurant with two locations (in Wan Chai and on Peel Street!) is an ideal date night spot for a few reasons. The first is its low-light romantic atmosphere, but even more importantly, the food is warm, inviting and totally shareable — meaning you and your boo can order up to four courses while keeping the bill under $500. Just don’t skip the perfectly smooth Hummus ($128) or melt-in-your-mouth Baked Halloumi ($120)!

Sassy Tip: If you’re planning on drinking, skip the cocktails ($100 each) and split the $200 carafe of Domaine de Brau Syrah, a French red, instead.

Price range: $198 per set lunch; $30 to $200 per mezze
Perfect for: Romantic vibe and sharing plates

Francis, G/F, 4-6 St Francis Street, Wan Chai, Hong Kong
Francis, 42 & 44 Peel Street, Central, Hong Kong, www.francis.com.hk

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Le Colvert – French duck cuisine in Sai Ying Pun

One of the newest (and most inviting) additions to Sai Ying Pun’s dining scene is Le Colvert, an authentic French restaurant that specialises in using every part of the duck, from beak to tail. Chef Guillaume prides himself on embracing the rich heritage of French duck cuisine, and adding a modern, sustainable twist to classic dishes. Between the delicious and hearty portions, duck-themed artwork adorning the walls and the warm atmosphere that evokes the comfort of a grandmother’s kitchen, this is the perfect date night spot for an intimate evening!

Price range: $198 per set lunch; $198 to $298 for ‘Plats’
Perfect for: Unique cuisine and cosy atmosphere

Enjoy 10% off your bill by quoting SASSY when making your booking. Offer valid until Thursday, 15 October, 2025.

Le Colvert, 321 Des Voeux Road West, Sai Ying Pun, Hong Kong, 9548 6555, Instagram: @lecolverthk, lecolverthk.com

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Sen Ryo — Affordable sushi platters all across Hong Kong

Chances are you’ve been to Sen Ryo before and accidentally spent more than you planned to, but with a little forethought, this is a great affordable date night restaurant. Our advice? Head to a branch without a conveyer belt and that isn’t within a crowded mall like IFC (we love the Causeway Bay Fashion Walk location). That way, you can cosy up in a table for two and order one of the many sushi or sashimi platter options — such as the Deluxe Sushi Platter, which includes 20 pieces for $438!

Sassy Tip: Want to experience the finer things without breaking the bank? With every sashimi platter, you can order a tin of caviar for just $68.

Price range: $238 to $668 per sharing platter; $65 to $162 per sushi quintet
Perfect for: High-quality Japanese food on a budget

Sen Ryo, various locations across Hong Kong, order.sen-ryo.com.hk

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Falcone — IFC’s energetic Neapolitan restaurant with crazy weekday deals

Did we just tell you to avoid IFC for date nights? Yes. Are we taking that right back to dish about Falcone? Also yes, but for good reason! Throughout the weekdays, from 3pm to 5:30pm, Falcone IFC has one of Hong Kong’s best dining deals: $98 pizzas (typically $258!),$58 cocktails and $238 bottles of wine. Plus, the lively staff, good music and immersive decoration characteristic of Black Sheep restaurants make this pizza joint an all-around good time, whether your date goes well or not!

Price range: $98 pizzas on weekdays from 3pm to 5:30pm
Perfect for: Lively energy, Napoli pizza and flowing drinks

Falcone, Main Atrium, IFC, 8 Finance Street, Central, Hong Kong, www.pizzeriafalcone.com

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SIÜ SIÜ — Modern izakaya and late-night bites in Sheung Wan

As a fairly new restaurant in Hong Kong, SIÜ SIÜ has been getting an impressive amount of attention. The hot new izakaya concept in Sheung Wan is especially praised for its prawn dishes, including the Drunken Prawn appetiser ($138), and Prawn Okonomiyaki ($128), which comes on toast. Just note that SIÜ SIÜ may not be the cheapest spot for a full sit-down meal — rather, with a closing time of 11pm, it’s perfect for an intimate bite after a few drinks.

Price range: $48 to $188 per appetiser, $158 to $298 per main
Perfect for: Late-night snack at a cool, trendy spot

SIÜ SIÜ, G/F, The Strand, 49 Bonham Strand, Sheung Wan, Hong Kong, Instagram: @siusiu.hk

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Pasteako – Affordable Italian-American steakhouse in PMQ

More concerned about leaving hungry than leaving room for dessert (*cough* your date)? Pasteako, a hidden gem in PMQ, offers free pasta refills along with your steak (both of which you choose from an array of options), so you can definitely get some bang for your buck. Beyond the 21-day dry-aged meat and authentic pasta, you can also select your own steak knife from a glass showcase for the ultimate “Godfather” experience.

Sassy Tip: Head here for the three-course set lunch ($188) if you want to keep the total tab under $500!

Price range: $388 per set dinner; $188 per set lunch
Perfect for: Hearty meal and fun ambiance

Pasteako, Shop HG01-HG05, G/F, Hollywood Building, PMQ, 35 Aberdeen Street, Central, Hong Kong, www.chesshouserestaurants.com/pasteako

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Kinsman – Cantonese cocktails and snacks on Peel Street

Kinsman is longtime favourite as a neighbourhood bar, but have you ever tried its Canto-inspired food? The menu takes elevated snacks to a whole new level: the mala-spiced Typhoon Shelter Fries ($78) and Lap Cheong Platter ($128), a Chinese meat charcuterie, are divine to start, while the deep-fried Shrimp Toast and Mapo Tofu Sando (both $128) are perfectly filling. Wash it all down with a classic Kinsman cocktail — primarily made with indigenous Cantonese spirits! — and lay back in those bright red booths for the full Wong Kar-wai date night experience.

Price range: $78 to $198 per dish; $88 to $150 per cocktail
Perfect for: Instagrammable interiors, cocktails and food

Kinsman, G/F, 65 Peel St Central, Hong Kong, www.singularconcepts.com/kinsman

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The Pizza Project — Fun and lively pizzeria in Central & Wan Chai

The Pizza Project may not be known for its authentic Neapolitan cuisine, but its price and vibe set it apart from other pizzerias. With individual pizzas starting at just $95 and its happy hour glasses of wine costing just $42, you’re bound to have a good night here. We also love the $460 set meal for two, which offers a choice of two starters, one pizza and two desserts, or one starter, two pizzas and one dessert — a steal either way!

Price range: $230 per set dinner (per person); $158 per set lunch
Perfect for: A three-course meal under $500

The Pizza Project, G/F, 26 Peel Street, Central, Hong Kong
The Pizza Project, G/F, 5 Star Street, Wan Chai, Hong Kong, thepizzaproject.hk

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For some women, the decision to lead a child-free life is as clear as day. For others, it’s a winding road of “maybe later,” “sadly, I can’t” or simply, “I’d rather not.” No matter where you land, though, one thing’s for sure: saying you don’t want children can feel like dropping a live grenade in a room full of baby enthusiasts. Expect side-eyes, unsolicited advice and a whole lot of “you’ll change your mind” spiels. But here’s the thing: no two experiences are the same. Whether you’ve faced backlash, disbelief or just a lot of awkward silences, your story is yours — and so is your choice. So, grab a cuppa (or a glass of wine, no judgement here), and join us as we dive into honest conversations with two bold, baby free women based in Hong Kong — and before you ask, both are over 30.

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What responses do you hear most often when someone learns you don’t have children?

S: “Would you like to?”

V: A face of disappointment, or the classic, “Oh well, you will, and you’ll see what I’m talking about.” It blows my mind that in 2025 people can’t accept that not everyone has children. I feel like I’m looked at as less of a woman, or not fully “adult” because I’m not a mother.

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Do you feel that these responses reflect assumptions about your life or priorities? How do you respond?

S: Most people are genuinely curious, and there’s no malice behind their questions, so I take no offence. I disagree with the assumption that those who don’t have children are selfish though. It’s important to be honest about what you want in life, and not a decision to take lightly.

V: I feel like I’m immediately judged and, in many cases, immediately dismissed. People have said to me, “You won’t understand joy or love until you have children,” while others tell me  that “the hardest thing you’ll ever experience in life is motherhood.” I can promise you, both of those comments are completely wrong. You have no idea what life I’ve lived or what challenges I’ve faced.  

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How do you navigate conversations in social or professional settings where motherhood is a central topic?

S: I’m very comfortable with it given the nature of my job, and the fact that most of my friends have kids. I’m happy to listen!

V: I’ve been told many times in the workplace, “You don’t understand, you’re not a parent,” so I’m automatically disregarded in conversations about motherhood — which honestly makes me feel incredibly left out. While it’s not my place to comment about the latest parenting trends, work should be a place where we are valued for our contributions and intelligence.

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How has your decision shaped your relationships with friends or family, especially with those who are parents? Have you found support or community with others who share a similar experience?

S: I never made a conscious decision either way about having children. A few of my friends also sit on the fence on the topic, but I don’t think the fact that we can travel at a moment’s notice, or have a spontaneous night out requires support!

V: I didn’t make my decision lightly. I always planned to have kids, but my partner was diagnosed with cancer years ago; after that, I had to decide if I wanted to have kids knowing that I would potentially be a single mother. For years, people who have never been in my position have shared their opinions, including my own family. My parents have pushed me to have a baby — they say they would be there to support me, but that isn’t the same as having a child with my partner — I don’t want to parent with my parents.

Friends have also chimed in to say I would make an amazing mum, or they’ll say, “so what if you’re a single mother, parenthood is the biggest blessing.” The worst I hear is: “You should have a baby now so if your partner does pass away, you’ll always have a piece of him.” Even with the best intentions, my community doesn’t provide the support or understanding I would like, but it’s something I’ve come to terms with. 

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What advice would you give to someone struggling with societal expectations or pressures around motherhood?

S: I’m not in a position to give advice because I don’t struggle with it, although I can definitely empathise with how heartbreaking it can be for women who want children and are unable to have them.

V: Like everything else, I’ve found humour with it. When strangers or acquaintances confront the issue head on (asking me why I haven’t had kids yet), I make jokes. When it’s someone I know I give a bit of sass. I’ve almost created a formula where, depending on the question, I already have an answer ready to go. I guess that’s not really advice, but it’s the best I’ve got. Each of us have our different reasons and emotions surrounding the issue, so how I handle it may not be right for others. 

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We place too much importance on motherhood when defining a woman’s identity — but as more women choose not to have children, do you see these expectations shifting?

S: It can only improve as younger generations are generally more accepting of people and circumstances that fall outside societal convention. Statistically they’re also having less sex, and birth rates have plummeted globally, so it will become increasingly common, and expectations will have to shift accordingly.

V: No. I’d love to say I think the younger generation is shifting the narrative, but I’m just not confident. The value of a woman in 2025 is still tied to if she has (or plans to have) children. I’m not viewed by society in a positive light for my success or accomplishments, but rather in a negative one because of my choice to not have children — which is a real shame, because I think I’m pretty great, even without kids. 

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The holidays are here, and while you’re busy checking off everyone else’s wish lists, don’t forget to treat yourself — or your partner — to something that’s both naughty and nice. After all, is there any better gift than a really good orgasm? Whether you’re looking to spice things up under the mistletoe or just indulge in a solo sleigh ride, Hong Kong has plenty of options to heat up those chilly winter nights. From sleek vibrators and couples’ toys to luxurious lubricants and playful accessories, we’ve rounded up the best sex and pleasure toys to add some extra sparkle to your season!

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LELO — Sila Clitoral Vibrator

This subtle toy is a great choice for those aren’t looking for anything too intense or who haven’t used pleasure toys before. The super soft silicone, wide mouth (made to perfectly fit against your body!), discreet sound and customisable vibration make it extremely gentle to use while still taking you to great heights. There are eight settings, from pulsations to consistent vibration, and it’s fully waterproof!

Available in-store or online from Sally’s Toy  

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Good Head — Pineapple Blowjob Set

Here us out, because this one’s not just a gag gift. If you’re the kind of girl that dreads going down, this flavoured set might just take some of the pressure off. The three-inch stroker is fleshy, pineapple scented and has multiple textures, so you can focus on the tip while it does the rest of the work for you! It also comes with a pineapple scented lubricant, making the whole experience a little more beachy-keen.

Available online from Adam & Eve. 

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Womanizer — Blend Rabbit Vibrator

Womanizer vibrators are known for using something called Pleasure Air Technology, which essentially provides all the pleasure you could want without any direct contact (hence, no accidental numbness!). This rabbit-style Blend toy offers dual G-spot and clitoral stimulation with eight different intensity levels, plus three different vibration styles.

Available online from Lexy

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Nawaya — Pink Shibari Jute Rope

There’s no time like the present to indulge the fantasies you’ve had for years. Whether you’re a seasoned veteran or just curious, try out this pink-tinted Shibari rope to match the marks it’s sure to leave behind! The high-grade hemp rope is specially used for tight binding, as the fibres are smoother than traditional hemp — and seriously, we can’t get over the colour.

Available in-store online from HKTV Mall or Sally’s Toys

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Lovense — Lush 2 Egg Vibrator

Long-distance pleasure, anyone? Whether you’re across the room from your partner or in a different city, this remote app-controlled toy allows you to have it all! The second model of the widely popular and perfectly curved wearable vibrator boasts all of the features of the first, but offers improved connectivity and has the button moved to the end of its antenna, so you can have fun inside and outside of the bedroom.

Available online from TakeToys.

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UPKO — Snowflake Nipple Clamps

Feeling extra festive? These might not be suitable for your office’s Secret Santa, but they’re sure to delight behind closed doors! Surprise your partner with these super fun and kitschy clamps, which provide just enough stimulation without being full-on torturous (unless that’s your thing, of course!).

Available in-store or online from Sally’s Toy.

Satisfyer — Double Ball-R Dildo

If you’ve never tried a weighted dildo, let us be the first to introduce you. The two weighted balls on this model give multifaceted sensation while providing the pleasant pressure associated with penetration (there’s also a slightly wavy surface for added pleasure!). Our favourite part is that you can attach it to a strap, so it’s perfect for the girls, the gays and the enbys.

Available online from PleasurePoint.

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